I've read a small library of articles that have laid out evidence that giving childrenrewards-from money to sweets to an extra hour before bedtime -not only doesn't work in thelong term, it actually has a negative effect on them. For bribing is bad. And yet I, my wife andnearly every other parent I know __36__  this tactic.        Edward Deci, a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester, New York, said thebiggest problem with rewards is that they actually work, __37__ in the short run. But withchildren, since you are trying to get them to adopt a behavior "more or less ongoingly for the restof their lives," the technique will backfire __38__ you're prepared to offer the same reward everytime.Dr. Deci __39__ a three-step alternative. First, be clear about why __40__you're asking themto do is important. Second, be interested in their point of view. Finally, don't use words like"should," "must," and "have to." These words convey to them you're a big person trying to pusharound a little person.
【題組】36.
(A) restrain from
(B) respond to
(C) resort to
(D) resist to